So you’re five months into a new relationship and the person couldn’t be a better fit for you. The stimulating conversations excite and motivate, the laughter brings much welcomed joy, and the sex – the sex – couldn’t have come at a better time! It’s been a while since you’ve felt like this about someone. You had begun to wonder if love had just passed you by. Yet, to your surprise love has arrived, and now your current mantra is full of phrases thanking the Universe for such a perfect connection. You appreciate this person; Life is good!
I think it is safe to say we have all experienced difficulties in our relationships. One of the reasons being, we are individuals with our own views, thoughts and feelings. We are not going to always agree with the person we love. Finding ourselves against a wall of discomfort are the moments we may want to walk away from the relationship. Many times that thought may cross our minds because we do not know how to handle or communicate our feelings, so we want to run. No. Running is not a loving option. Since two people are in the relationship, problems can be discussed and rectified – even if the conversation will be difficult. Remember – we are all unique with a variety of needs and desires. Someone in the relationship may feel that their needs are not being met. Unmet needs cause problems.
Well, maybe not tonight but certainly sometime really soon!
Hi, my name is Dr. Lateefah Wielenga, founder of The Coaching Kiva (formerly The Coaching Kitchen) and I am a Co-Creator. I help men create wonderful, lasting relationships with beautiful, interesting, loving women.
I know many of you guys have been stumped when it comes to approaching that beautiful, sexy women you’ve had your eye on – or that has been standing right in front of you. You’ve probably thought “Man she’s hot. I’d really like to talk to her.” But for some reason you just didn’t follow through. You didn’t go up to her and start a conversation – you didn’t ask her name – you never even asked for her number.